Change... happens all the time.. you never come to terms with it immediately.. but it happens nevertheless... People tell you that you've changed... and we always say... 'what crap!?! m still the same old me"... but every little cell in your body knows you're lying... still... you deny.
You deny cos being the "same old you" sounds like cuddling into a warm fuzzy blanket. It makes you feel secure... gives you a sense of identity and recognition...
When someone says you've changed, once this blanket is forcefully taken away from you, the emptiness and the nakedness hits you like an avalanche in the cold bad world...
And you feel dark, depressed, spiteful, lonely, anti-social... and all the things you shouldn't be...
only way out = accepting change!!
Maybe... just maybe.. accepting the change with arms wide open is the only way to feel better... maybe people who loved you before you changed will eventually learn to love you for new reasons... Or they can tell you whats going wrong.. and you can change back into being you're previous own self.... ;))
And since a blog post is is empty without a quote...
"Change; we don’t like it, we fear it, but we can't stop it from coming. We either adapt to change or we get left behind. And it hurts to grow, anybody who tells you it doesn’t is lying. But heres the truth: the more things change, the more they stay the same. And sometimes, oh, sometimes change is good. Oh, sometimes, change is ... everything."
So... go ahead... embrace the change.. B-)
Yes, I have changed... :)
You deny cos being the "same old you" sounds like cuddling into a warm fuzzy blanket. It makes you feel secure... gives you a sense of identity and recognition...
When someone says you've changed, once this blanket is forcefully taken away from you, the emptiness and the nakedness hits you like an avalanche in the cold bad world...
And you feel dark, depressed, spiteful, lonely, anti-social... and all the things you shouldn't be...
only way out = accepting change!!
Maybe... just maybe.. accepting the change with arms wide open is the only way to feel better... maybe people who loved you before you changed will eventually learn to love you for new reasons... Or they can tell you whats going wrong.. and you can change back into being you're previous own self.... ;))
And since a blog post is is empty without a quote...
"Change; we don’t like it, we fear it, but we can't stop it from coming. We either adapt to change or we get left behind. And it hurts to grow, anybody who tells you it doesn’t is lying. But heres the truth: the more things change, the more they stay the same. And sometimes, oh, sometimes change is good. Oh, sometimes, change is ... everything."
So... go ahead... embrace the change.. B-)
Yes, I have changed... :)
